Naturalization Papers 1941 |
When
I was a kid, I was enthralled with adult conversation – mainly
because I was usually banned from it – told to leave the room and
go play with my brothers or cousins. And that made me more curious –
what did big people talk about – and why was the subject matter not
for my ears?
If we were visiting my grandparents on a Sunday night, my Mom and
grandmother would be in the kitchen gossiping mainly about the
different neighbors who Mom still knew. I always wanted to be in the
kitchen with them – listening, watching their eyes light up with
the conversation – I never knew who they were talking about, but I
felt I could learn something from their kitchen-talk
examples.
Invariably
however, whenever I was in the kitchen with the women, my grandfather
would call from the living room, “Denny! Come see who Ed Sullivan
has on!” I did not want to see who Ed Sullivan had on – probably
some boring circus act - I wanted to listen to Mom and Granny in the
kitchen! But I couldn't ignore my grandfather, so I would reluctantly
drag myself to the living room. Grandpa would give a slight point of
the finger to the television as I approached, and his face would be
smiling with humor at the Sullivan show and also with delight in
sharing it with me.
The
groan I wanted to utter stayed inside as a man spinning plates on
poles was the act I mostly remember on the Sullivan show on those
nights when I was called to watch. How could grown people find plate
spinners amusing?
Now
that I am a grandparent, plates twirling on poles and kept from
falling by a frantic performer are scenes I would love to
share with my own beloved grandchildren!
Clark
Junkin was born and raised in Ontario, Canada; Dolly moved to Ontario
from England when she was 11 years old. As a young woman, Dolly got a
job as a switchboard operator at a hotel.
She had three suitors.
One was a son from a wealthy family.
One was a student in medical school.
And one was poor.
The
poor one had a job working on the construction of the Welland Canal – but when the Canal was
finished, Clark had to find new work.
As you might guess, Clark was the beau Dolly liked the best. They got engaged –
but almost immediately they realized that neither family would
approve.
my grandparents 1946 |
So
they eloped! They were married in Niagara Falls, Ontario.
The year was 1925. And the new married couple decided to move to Buffalo, temporarily,
– just the other side of the border, in the US – because they
heard jobs were more plentiful there.
Well,
that's Dolly's story. Just think, the existence of their children,
and grandchildren, and the two generations after them, is
all thanks to Dolly;s picking of beau number three and their choice to move to Buffalo, just across the border!
105
20150415 Clark A. Junkin
No comments:
Post a Comment